Three words are uber important for every couple: thinking of you. One rule that every strong couple knows is that space is necessary – but so is communication. As much as your partner appreciates his space, he still likes to know you’re thinking about him when he’s not around. Read on for tips and examples.

Whether you’re apart for the agonizing 8 hours of the working day, or making your love happen long distance, there will come a time when you’ll run out of cute little messages to text him, “just because”.

But don’t give up on it! These messages are important to make him feel wanted, and needed, while not encroaching on his time or space.

Check out these ideas to let him know you care, and be inspired ☺

Keys To Rocking This Type Of Message

A creative message to let him know he’s on your mind is harder to perfect than you may think.

The whole purpose of this type of text message is to send him unquestionable love, with no expectations attached to it. These aren’t conversation starter texts, nor are they a competition of who loves each other more. They are a present from you to him – no strings attached.

So DO NOT ask a question (that isn’t obviously rhetorical). Do not send two in a row (or more!). And NEVER get angry if he doesn’t reply right away. Trust me: he got it, he loved it, he doesn’t need to text back to show it.

Cute Thinking Of You Texts For Him

These are for the middle of the day, the first thing in the morning, or half way through that awful dinner with your relatives. They are meant to make him smile, and let him know that although you’ve got other commitments right now – you’re thinking of him.

“Hurry up and wake up – the worlds better when you’re smiling at it”

“Don’t let this text distract you babe – unless you WANT to be distracted 🙂 ”

“As much as I’m enjoying this party, I’d rather be home alone with you…”

“I hope your office chair is appreciating your butt, cause I’m definitely missing it in bed”

“Rise and shine, it’s ‘thinking of you’ time”

“I’ve been smiling all day. You know why?”

“Almost stapled my hand – you’re not even HERE and you’re still distracting me!”

Romantic Thinking Of You Texts For Him

More thoughtful texts at special moments can let him know how special he is to you with just a few words. They are for the man who is far away, or going through a tough time, who needs to be reminded that there is a strong, loving woman waiting on the other side.

“I can’t decide if the best part of my day is waking up next to you, or going to sleep with you. Hurry home so I can compare the two again.”

“Another day closer to devouring you…”

“I know I already said goodnight on Skype, but I forgot to give you these → xxx”

“I’m glad you left your smell on my pillow…it will keep me company tonight while you’re away”

“Just realized that I’m really not a morning person unless you’re here”

“Is it cloudy where you are tonight? I wonder if we’re staring at the same stars…”

“I’ll put another goodnight kiss in the bank for tonight – you have a lot to cash in on!”

Desire Building Thinking Of You Texts For Him

These are for the week before a date, the train home from work, or the taxi from the airport. Thinking of you texts for him that build desire and excitement are for a lover you haven’t seen for a while, or are just really looking forward to being with again. You’re telling him you have a million things to do before you see them – but you took the time out to text, just because.

“I can’t believe how long this day is – the night had better be just as slow ;)”

“I was about to wish you sweet dreams, but then I remembered what I have planned for the night – I already know they’ll be sweet”

“Monday’s are loooong, but being with you all weekend filled me up with positive energy”

“Get some sleep – you’ll need it for tomorrow”

I can’t wait for you to walk through that door”

“Decided what we’re doing tonight – but you’ll have to wait – don’t want you distracted all afternoon at the office”

Texting is the best way to let someone know they’ve invaded your thoughts, when you’re not by their side. Use these cute, romantic, and desirable thinking of you texts for him to let him know his spot is secure, wherever he is.

If you are interested in learning more about masterful texting and putting all the odds in your favor every time you press the Send button, then check out my eBook French Seduction Made Easy. This fun, creative program will teach you the art of texting with the French touch. It will show you how to ignite or re-ignite the flame of passion in your relationship.

Best of all, it will keep this flame burning as hot as if you were walking arm in arm on a romantic midnight stroll through the streets of Paris…

Claudia Cox

Claudia Cox is a modern communication expert who gives singles and couples alike the tools they need to improve their relationships. She is the creator of The Text Weapon Texting Club, and the author of French Seduction Made Easy. She loves the outdoors, baking tasty treats for friends, and of course, texting.
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    1. Hi Nicole,
      Do you know what he likes, or what he’s interested in? You could send him a photo or a joke or something like that. Or, if you talk to him in between class or after school and he makes a joke you can keep the joke going…
      At the end of the day, he should be working hard to make you like him, so if you think he’s acting bored, give your attention to another boy who deserves it 🙂

  1. i like this 16 year old boy but im not sure if he still has my number or not .i dont have his anymore. what should i do?

    1. Hey there,
      Are you in the same class with him? Do you have some of the same friends at school? If so, start out slowly and just say hi when you see him. Make eye contact and smile. Unless he is super shy, he should pick it up from there and start a conversation with you. If the conversation stalls, bring up a common topic and ask him some open ended questions.
      Good luck! 🙂

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