There’s two things you should realize about love letters right off the bat: One, your girlfriend has been dreaming that someone would write her one since she was a little girl. Second, as long as you mean whatever you write you literally cannot go wrong!
That’s right – writing a really great love letter that’s sure to have her reaching for a box of tissues can be easy and fun. And don’t worry, it’s not all sappy – throw in some humor, joke about your flaws, follow your instinct and keep it real.
So are you ready to let it all hang out and start expressing your romantic feelings? Break out your thesaurus and indulge in some rich, descriptive vocabulary that’s sure to put her head in the clouds every time she reads it.
PS – Don’t forget to add one of these! The little “plus” packs a big punch – it’ll let her know you love her so much you just can’t say it enough.
Love Letter To Girlfriend – The First Timers Club
A quick note before we begin: A love letter to girlfriend is a definitive act of passion and a great way to solidify your feelings, so be sure you’re already in a solid relationship and those sentiments exist! Having used the “L” word a few times is a good sign. Otherwise you risk out-romancing yourself too soon, with nowhere else to go!
If you’re the kind of lover who’s put up a fight because of a bad past, one of the sweetest things you can let your lady know is that her amazing qualities have changed your mind, and your life.
Until I met you, I thought having that one person who lit up your life and made every day brighter was just something invented by people trying to sell movies and songs. But now I know that you’re the one I’ve been looking for all my life… When we first met I was afraid of letting you in, and I’m sure that you felt that. I guess that deep down I was worried that I couldn’t be everything you needed and were looking for. But little by little I see how you accept my flaws, and how patient you are with me. Thank you for being so gentle and understanding. Being around you gives me so much hope for the future…
P.S. While I’m opening myself up, I’ll let you in on a little secret- you’re the reason I strive to be a better person.
There’s no reason your first love letter to girlfriend can’t be short and sweet! If you (or her, or both!) are a no-frills type of person, a note to show her how happy the relationship has made you is a perfect first love letter.
Even though today is just a Tuesday, and not a special occasion at all, I had the urge to write you a little letter (it’s long overdue). I am so happy that we’re together. Ever since we first started dating, I’ve felt engulfed by a cloud of positive energy…your positive energy. Just being around you makes me happy – I noticed that you have that effect on a lot of people. So, thank you for always being so warm and caring, and for making me so very, very proud to call you my girlfriend.
P.S. – I love you
Long-Term Relationship: Love Letter To Girlfriend
If you’ve been together a while, writing a letter reassuring her that your affection hasn’t faded is a wonderful reward for all the happiness she’s given you. A well thought out and executed sweet note screams loud and clear “I can’t take my eyes off of you”.
Every day that we are together makes me more confident that we were meant to be. You inspire me so much that sometimes I worry that I won’t be able to express it to you. The months, weeks, and days leading up to now have been nothing but extraordinary, so I owe it to you to try. Every bit of you is ingrained in me. A whiff of your perfume triggers my memories. The sound of your laugh wakes up my soul. I would love to know why the thought of you still keeps me restless at the oddest hours of the day – or if I have the same effect on you. Your eyes are still my favorite place to get lost in. Your arms are still my favorite comfort. Your heart is the only place I call home. Thank you for everything we’ve shared, I look forward to making you happy for many years to come.
Mr. Hidden Romance
If your girlfriend is continuously dropping hints that you are not romantic enough, show her that your feelings are strong and real.
I’ve never been the best when it comes to expressing my feelings (I guess you probably picked that up by now). I’m sure you crave more romance in our relationship. But you know what? Even when I’m silent, my heart is filled with love and devotion for you…
P.S even the nights when I don’t kiss you goodnight, you’re always in my thoughts as I drift off to sleep.
Long-Distance: Love Letter To Girlfriend
Regardless of why you live apart, facing the distance is a difficult battle. Fortunately, today’s LDRs (long distance relationships) can enjoy the many benefits of modern technology and easier communication such as Skype, What’s App and Viber. But that doesn’t mean you should ignore the importance of these missiles of seduction. There are only a few things considered more romantic to a woman than a well-written love letter expressing your deepest feelings about how much you miss her and love her.
The Long Distance Love
Is your girlfriend worried about the strain the distance might put on your relationship? Tell her that you share her concern, but you know that eventually, everything will work out and you’ll be back together very soon.
It’s been another morning without waking up to your gorgeous face next to mine. Having you so far away from me is painful. I wish I could change our circumstances, but I know that right now, it isn’t possible. Despite the distance, I know that our relationship is destined to work. Until I can have you next to me (where you belong), please keep this as a reminder of how much I truly love you. P.S. Whenever I think about the fact that you’re mine, I can’t help but smile.
Today I Miss…
Be specific in what you miss the most about your girlfriend.
Being apart from you is so, so difficult for so many reasons. I miss feeling your touch, as well as your warmth on my coldest days. No one else knows how to comfort me the way you do. I dream about you all the time, and worry that I’ve started to prefer it to being awake because you seem close enough to touch. Thinking about you is how I get through my day.
P.S. I can’t wait to see you again, as soon as possible.
The Dog House: After A Fight
After having a fight, writing a love letter to your girlfriend is especially romantic. It doesn’t matter what triggered the fight; what’s important is letting your girlfriend know that you’re sorry.
Mr. Foot in the Mouth
If you’ve realized the fight was actually your fault, a love letter is a romantic way to step up to the plate and let her know you’re sorry and simultaneously sweep her off her feet.
I just wanted you to know how sorry I am for my behavior. I understand now that what I did was wrong because ____________. I wasn’t thinking, and I’m incredibly sorry to not have taken responsibility immediately. I love you more than I love being right…I hope you’ll accept this apology. I appreciate the effort it took you to endure me when I was wrong and acting like a jerk. Your strength is impressive.
You and Your Big Mouth
If you’re the one who first became angry, try calmly and rationally explaining how you feel and apologize for anything hurtful you may have said while upset.
I’m very sorry about our heated argument. I feel awful for what I said about ____. I won’t lie, the issue we were fighting about is very important to me, but I see now that my reaction to ____ was too extreme and did not warrant my anger or strong words. If you’re open to it, let’s sit down and talk about why I was so upset.
Have Fun And Surprise Yourself
The keys to a timeless love letter is showing your vulnerability, being honest, and putting some effort into writing it. While it may be tempting to copy lines from a movie, or love letters floating around the Internet (including these ☺), you would be doing yourself and your girlfriend injustice. Put down the remote control and concentrate for just a few minutes. Remember to have some fun, you just might surprise yourself and your partner with the result.