The law of attraction is certainly appealing. According to this “law,” all we have to do is think positively and believe that we deserve great things, and those great things will be granted to us. Can it really be that simple? How does this concept apply to those of us who are trying to improve our romantic relationships? This article sorts the facts from the assumptions, provides insight into how it shapes our lives, and demonstrates how we can harness it to strengthen our relationships. Read on to learn the three powerhouse law of attraction concepts that can help you improve your texting.

The law of attraction states that like attracts like. According to this law, people who envision positive outcomes will be successful, while pessimistic people will only make more trouble for themselves. In a nutshell, your attitude shapes your life. Get ready to discover law of attraction tips that will positively influence your life.

I’ve Got The Power

A wealth of anecdotal evidence suggests that the law of attraction is a powerful force that can influence the lives of many people and bring them wild success (or, perhaps, epic failure for those who think negatively). In fact, there is no shortage of believers who swear by the law of attraction, and almost anyone would agree that, if nothing else, it’s a pretty compelling concept. You may have even witnessed firsthand some examples of it’s power in your own life.

Like most pop psychology concepts, the law of attraction is surrounded by conflicting information. The concept has become a buzzword, generating lots of advice and plenty of law of attraction tips from questionable sources.

How do you sort the fact from the fiction?


Before we dive into this discussion, let’s make sure we’re all on the same page regarding our definition of the law of attraction. Simply put, think of it like this: if you act a certain way, you will tend to attract certain corresponding outcomes.

That definition is intentionally vague, but here’s a more specific example that may sound familiar to a lot of you: Pretend for a moment that you’re a high school girl in the early weeks of your first real relationship. You’re feeling insecure, worrying that your boyfriend is going to decide that you’re unworthy of his time, stop finding you attractive, get bored with you, and ultimately dump you for a more glamorous and interesting girl.

We all know how this story ends, right? Because you’ve been acting insecure, clingy, and as if you don’t deserve his affection, he will, of course, start to perceive you exactly as you feared: as a boring, unattractive, and uninteresting girl.

This common self-fulfilling prophecy illustrates the concept behind the law of attraction, and shows how it can make your life miserable. However, what intrigues most people about this law is the other side of the coin – the idea that by wanting and inviting success, you can become successful.

Law Of Attraction Tips For Relationships

There’s no clear consensus about how to harness the law of attraction to improve romantic relationships, but there are a lot of ideas floating around. Should you create vision boards and a ten-page list of desired features in your ideal soul mate? Should you buy an easel, canvas, paint brushes and paint, and create the portrait of your future spouse, hoping it will come to life as if it were a made-for-TV Disney movie?

I don’t want to hold you back from becoming the next Monet or anything, but if you are interested in more useful, down to earth (and less time-consuming) law of attraction tips that can improve your romantic relationships, then read on.

How to use the law of attraction

Today, texting is a key communication channel between couples. And yet, where is all of the advice for how to use the power of attraction to text like Don Juan? Worry not – I’ve got you covered. Rather than overwhelming you with hundreds of attraction tips, here are three powerhouse concepts that can help you improve your texting.

1. Exude Confidence

Text messages present a unique opportunity that doesn’t exist when you’re put on the spot at a bar, at a party, or even on a date. You have time to plan exactly what you want to say to your partner. Use this planning time to your advantage.

How does this relate to the law of attraction? Well, for example, if your default approach to asking someone out is timid, indirect, and/or self-effacing, texting will make it easier for you to take a more confident approach to securing a date.

Instead of texting “Hey, you probably don’t remember me, and I’m sure you’re busy but I just figured I’d see if you would ever feel like hanging out sometime, maybe?” – try something more confident such as “Hi Sara, You’ve got rhythm, conversation and you’re easy on the eyes. I really want to see you again. Let’s say tomorrow night? Brian”

According to the law of attraction, this could have many more benefits than simply increasing your chances of scoring the date. As the theory goes, your self-assured approach will eventually start earning you dates with people who are attracted to confident people (i.e. other confident, and likely attractive, people). By securing attention from these types of people, you’ll start feeling better about yourself, which will make you more confident, which will make you even more attractive in the eyes of others. It’s a cycle, a good cycle.

2. Look For Red Flag Texts

This is something most people overlook. You can often spot “bad news” people early on – even through text exchanges – which means they can usually be avoided. One aspect of the law of attraction is focused on feeling good, this translates into not putting up with things that can bring you down.

For example, if you text something special to your partner (such as flirty photos) and he or she never responds, takes a really long time to comment, or only responds when you ask them about it directly, then move on.

Likewise, when you get that late night booty call after weeks of being ignored, remember that you deserve better – and something better is exactly what you’ll get.

3. Bury The Hatchet

Another aspect of the law of attraction is letting go of the things that make you feel bad. This means, try to avoid getting involved in nasty text exchanges. If you’re angry, write your message in the notes section of your phone, and then let it sit there while you cool off. Afterwards, delete it. In the long run, deleting it will make you feel much better then actually sending it.

Seriously, who really wins in text exchanges like this:

You: “ You’re such a jerk, I can’t believe you picked me up 25 minutes late. You’re a waste of time”
Him: “Too bad you didn’t use the extra time to try and make yourself look presentable”
You: “Presentable? So I can go out with a loser like you? I should have stayed home and watched Dancing with the Stars instead”

Law of Attraction Tips to Build Your Brand

It is important to stay positive in all areas of life. Even in texting. Before you hit send, make sure that you are presenting yourself in the way you’d like to be thought of. Your texts are a magnet…what do you want to attract? If you need some help getting into the “power of positive texting” frame of mind, check out my eBook French Seduction Made Easy to set your own personal texting goal, stay mentally tough, and come up with a multitude of creative and flirty message ideas to make your partner fall in love with you, and stay in love with you.

Claudia Cox

Claudia Cox is a modern communication expert who gives singles and couples alike the tools they need to improve their relationships. She is the creator of The Text Weapon Texting Club, and the author of French Seduction Made Easy. She loves the outdoors, baking tasty treats for friends, and of course, texting.
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  1. Hi Claudia,

    I’m a single man (30 years old) and I was thinking of posting a picture of myself on Instagram. However, I have run out of ideas in what caption I should put under my picture. Do you have any advice on how I can put myself out there with a good caption without sounding “needy” but kind of “seductive” or relatable to what I post (to perhaps increase the response of females)?


    1. Hi Sunil,
      The key is to write a caption that fits your personality – and the photo. It should be upbeat, humorous and confident.
      For example, if you’re a runner, you could post a photo in your workout gear with a caption like “Runners high never goes out of style”. If you post a photo at the beach you could write something like “All about the vibe”. Neither of these are needy captions are needy – they show your fun side and your positive energy.

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