Itching to text your partner something that will wow them, but not sure where to start? Never fear! We've narrowed it down to 5 crucial points and pacakged it up into one quick, easy to follow how to flirt through text cheat sheet. So, get flirting!

Are you sick of your texts being ignored? Are you ready to learn how to flirt through text? Ready to start sending little electronic missiles of seduction? Then it’s time for action! Before you launch your next text attack, go through these tips and make sure your message is stellar, not crappy.

1. Remember that the essence of how to flirt through text is being positive

Make it a rule to never send a negative sounding text message to a romantic interest. If you are feeling less than chipper, write down your negative thoughts onto a piece of paper, and let it go before picking up your cell phone. This one small tweak will make your messages an instant success with the opposite sex. Life is hard – nobody’s excited to receive downer texts.

What to text:
Positive – “Hey superstar, how’s life in land of the super cute girls?”

What not to text:
Negative – “I’m so tired! Work sucks. I want to quit!”

2. Don’t be afraid to call upon sexy memories as texting “ammo”

Cleverly steamy messages are an art form. Start to think about what has seduced or intrigued your partner in the past, and then brainstorm a short list of message ideas. Was it how you kissed them? Your scent? If you don’t know your partner well enough to have discovered what makes them weak in the knees, maybe it’s about time that you asked!

What to text:
Sexy – “Where are your hands?”

What not to text:

Nothing too vulgar – “How about we f…later?” (If you’re not already later, that message sure isn’t going to entice anybody!)

3. Humor is sexy. Period.

As you probably already know, humor is sexy. So, instead of constantly writing sexy messages, seduce your partner with something funny. Don’t worry if you are not naturally funny, take a minute to gather some creative ideas from a comedy website, or listen to a short Podcast.

What to text:
Funny – “Thinking of getting that teleporter fixed so I can visit you whenever I want.”

What not to text:
Canned – “Your father must be a thief because he stole the stars…”

4. A very specific, sincere compliment can go a long way…

You can almost NEVER go wrong with a sincere compliment (this also holds true for guys, ladies). The key is to be specific, and make sure that it’s something you truly appreciate in your partner. People can smell a phony compliment from miles away, so tread with care.

What to text:
Complimentary – “I love the way your suit emphasizes your strong shoulders.”

What not to text:
Nagging – “Don’t forget to take out the garbage.”

5. The more personalized your message, the more it will stand out.

People receive oodles of emails, texts and pop up ads on the Internet. The last thing they are interested in receiving is another ho-hum message from their romantic interest. They want these precious messages to be special, and special means personalized.

What to text:
Personalized – “Gorgeous, funny and you like spicy food? I think I’m in love.”

What not to text:
Generic – “Hi, how’s your day?”

How To Flirt Through Text Round-Up

Regardless of the stage of your relationship, make sure that each text message you send your partner leaves a positive impression, and sets the mood for success. Follow this five-point how to flirt through text cheat sheet and you’ll make your partner feel more valued than ever before!

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Claudia Cox

Claudia Cox is a modern communication expert who gives singles and couples alike the tools they need to improve their relationships. She is the creator of The Text Weapon Texting Club, and the author of French Seduction Made Easy. She loves the outdoors, baking tasty treats for friends, and of course, texting.
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