I was chatting with a friend the other day about “l’amour” and more specifically how to make a woman fall in love with you. I’m lucky to be friends with this man and be able to “talk shop”. He’s the real deal – charming, intelligent, classy and probably most of all, he absolutely LOVES women – he worships at their feet. Let’s call him “Dr. Desire”.
On a side note: I strongly believe that a friend like this is essential in the life of every slightly naïve, nice girl (like myself, and probably you!). Who better to help you navigate the stormy waters (that is love and dating), than a man who lives it every day?
So, some people talk about sports, or finance, or world events, but between him and I, it’s always about one thing: seduction. The game that makes the world go ‘round. The complex dance between men and women. The fun stuff.
I was feeling particularly bold this day, so I went straight in for the kill and I asked him my burning question: What is your secret?
Basically, how to make a woman fall in love with you?
He didn’t even need to think twice: “I make her laugh 2-3 times in the first 10 minutes and then she’s all mine”.
And here I was, naïve and foolish as I am, thinking it was all about presence, confidence, status or even something physical (like bulging biceps).
But, to him, it is ALL ABOUT humor.
I dug a bit deeper.
“How so” I asked? “What kind of humor?”
According do Dr. Desire, it could be absolutely anything.
Make a friendly joke about the way she’s dressed, or what she orders, or better yet – make fun of yourself. It just has to be something witty, natural, and sure to make her laugh. After that, you’ll probably find yourself on a roll that just won’t stop.
The first 10 minutes with a woman are absolutely critical. If you can’t make her laugh, or charm the socks off of her with your sense of humor in the time it takes her to order a drink…then the game is OVER.
How To Make A Woman Fall In Love With You: 3 Tips
Here are 3 sure fire ways to set the stage for success.
Make Fun Of Her (In A Cute Way)
Pick something about her appearance, or actions that is cute or quirky, and poke fun at it in a way that she can tell you’re joking.
Say she is wearing yoga pants, try: “Thought you were gonna be on the couch watching Netflix by 9, huh?”
If she orders a girly drink at the bar, tease her with:
“Interesting choice, thought you were more of a scotch on the rocks kind of girl…”
Make Fun Of Yourself
Self-deprecating jokes are a great way to make someone laugh with you and feel instantly close to you.
If you want to get a girls attention on a night out, approach her with something like this to make her laugh:
“Was going to ask you to dance, but didn’t want to ruin your sexy shoes”
The compliment is all hers (her nice shoes), and the joke on you (clumsy!). This approach is sure to get a smile (and probably that dance).
Make Fun Of The Situation
Nothing draws two people together like being stuck in a weird situation with each other.
If you’re in line at the checkout behind a girl who catches your eye, try something like this:
“I was planning on making it home in time for a good night’s sleep, but I guess standing in line behind you isn’t a bad second option”
Or if you want to seem less obvious:
“And I thought the (insert the name of the busiest road in your area) was a traffic jam!”
So, how to make a woman fall in love with you? According to Dr. Desire, it’s as easy as making her laugh!
Just stay natural, light-hearted, and get it done within the first ten minutes, and she’ll be all yours.