Look around and you’ll probably see it’s a world filled with pink, red and tasty treats. Why? Because it’s little cupids birthday! OK, I might have made that up. But, one thing’s for sure, it’s Valentine’s Day season! Unless you live in a shoebox in the back 40, you better at least send your significant other a sweet text message!

It’s February. You know what that means? That love and romance is in the air! It’s officially time to get down with your romantic self!

Are you ready?


Sure you are! Let’s start with the basics:

What’s better than a dozen roses?

Cheaper than a new Mercedes?

And more touching than a new tie?

Personalized Valentines Day text messages! Don’t worry if you’re stuck at roses are red, violets are blue. Never fear! We’ve got your back!

Valentine’s Day is for everyone. It doesn’t matter if you’re single, dating or in a long-term relationship, Valentine’s Day is when you can text your crush, your lover or your partner and enjoy some romantic fun in February.

The flirtier your texts are, the more fun it is!

But what flirty Valentine’s Day text messages should you send? How do you turn your crush on and how do you set up a romantic dinner date for two?

In this article, we’ll be running you through a number of Valentine’s Day text messages you can send. We’ll be covering the different types of messages you can send, including those to send your spouse and those to send a potential Tinder date.

Read on for some romantic Valentines Day text messages that are sure to melt your sweetie’s heart, and score you some Feb 14th lovin’!

Flirty Valentine’s Day Texts for Someone You’ve Just Started Dating

Not been dating them too long? You’re probably at that golden period where you can’t keep your hands off each other 😉 Here are some flirty text suggestions just for you:

“I know it’s probably too soon for us to celebrate Valentine’s Day together but I have a great idea…”

This is the easiest way to ramp up a bit of sexual tension between the two of you.

“Plans for Valentine’s Day? I’d love to spoil you!”

Let them know you are their best V Day plan.

“I bought this sexy underwear for Valentine’s Day. Wanna see it?”

Whether you two are a “thing” or not yet, you can still get up to no good on Valentine’s Day.

“So, I’ve been informed by my sources that someone likes you a lot and would like to see you on Valentine’s Day …”

Whoever could this mysterious person be?

“I never really ‘do’ Valentine’s Day but you’re making me wanna do something lol.”

It’s your way of angling for them to ask you out on February 14th.

“Soooo I guess it’s the most romantic day of the year…wanna spend it together?”

Go in for the date. Cupid has got your back!

Valentine’s Day Texts to Send Your Spouse

Valentine’s Day is for that special someone in your life. Here are some ideas to make your husband or wife feel amazing on Feb 14:

“With you by my side, I always feel as though I can accomplish anything. Happy Valentine’s Day!”

They’re your rock.

“However we celebrate Valentine’s Day doesn’t matter to me. What matters is that I celebrate it with you.”

We’re tearing up.

“Happy Valentine’s Day to my beloved, my soul mate and my intended.”

Valentine’s Day texts rarely get more romantic than this.

“Ready to spice up our marriage on Valentine’s Day?”

Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you can’t have fun on V Day.

“You were my crush, you were my date and now you’re my [husband or wife]. And yet the question is still the same each year – will you be my Valentine?”

You’re basically auditioning for the role in a romantic movie here.

“All the chores are done, work is over. Now all I need is for you to join me in bed for some sweet valentine’s lovin’”

Life might get in the way sometimes when we’re married – but not on Valentine’s Day.

“They say Valentine’s Day loses its meaning a little as you get older. But all I know is I still want to rip your clothes off on February 14th.”

Marriage isn’t going to slow you guys down.

“The day I first met you was special, the day I married you was even better. And every Valentine’s Day I share with you gives me more moments to treasure for a lifetime.”

I mean, at this point you may as well be employed by Hallmark.

Flirty Valentine’s Day Texts to Send Your Long-Term Partner

Not married, not dating but in a committed relationship? Here are some Valentine’s Day text ideas for you:

“Hey you, I know we agreed that Valentine’s Day is meaningless but I couldn’t help myself and bought some naughty lingerie for your eyes only xx”

If the two of you had previously agreed not to do anything for Valentine’s Day, it’s important to remember that rules are meant to be broken.

“Can’t believe you’ve put up with me so long, you deserve a medal! … and maybe something extra sexy tonight 😉 Happy Valentine’s Day!”

You big flirt, you.

“I still remember our first Valentine’s Day like it was yesterday. I’m so glad and appreciative that you’re still in my life.”

Tearjerker 101.

“I think it’s time we made Saint Valentine’s himself blush, don’t you think?”


“Remember when you unwrapped those presents at Christmas? I’ve got something else for you to unwrap on Valentine’s Day …”

Perhaps it’s you they’ll be unwrapping?!

“You’re my best friend, my partner and you’ll always be my Valentine’s.”

We don’t know but this one just hit us in the feels.

Sweet Valentines Day Text Messages For Every Couple

Here are a few compliment inspired Valentines Day text messages to crank up the romance. Remember, you don’t need to send this exact text to your partner – use it for inspiration and let your creative juices flow!

You know what I like best about you? Your kindness and natural beauty.

One word to describe you: passionate. Don’t ever change!

You’re just the right mix of old school class and raw sexual energy 😉

I was never a huge Valentine’s Day person – that is until I met you.

I love you – always and forever. Sure it’s a song…but it’s how I feel ☺

Never imagined I’d be with someone so sexy and yet so sweet…you’re the best ☺

You and me, sitting in a tree…actually sitting anywhere…I love being with you.

Roses are red. You’re beautiful. Not very original – but true 😉

I want to hold your hand…and never let go.

My love for you goes way beyond candy hearts and little arrows. It’s the real deal baby.

You’re tasty. I want to bite you.

Love your laugh, soft skin, mischievous look in your eyes…and the way you say my name.

I wouldn’t change one thing about you. You’re an angel. My angel. Love you.

Tonight’s all about us. Happy Valentine’s Day to the other half of us!

I really appreciate everything you do for me…today and everyday!

I’m thinking Valentine’s Day should be every month, no make that every day.

Valentines Day Text Messages Main Take-Away

Hopefully one of these Valentines Day text messages has given you some creative ideas to craft your very own sweet treat. Even if you hate Valentine’s Day, play the game and send your significant other a small note of appreciation.

Actually, don’t stop (or start) there! Get in the habit of texting your partner a sweet good morning, goodnight, or simple “thinking of you” message every day.

Happy Valentine’s Day! Now, get going and send your sweetie a special valentines day text message!!!

Claudia Cox

Claudia Cox is a modern communication expert who gives singles and couples alike the tools they need to improve their relationships. She is the creator of The Text Weapon Texting Club, and the author of French Seduction Made Easy. She loves the outdoors, baking tasty treats for friends, and of course, texting.
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