In this article, we’ll take a look at how to talk intimately with your boyfriend over text with examples, tips and expert advice. All you have to do is execute.
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Timing is Everything
Is he at work bored all day?
Now might be a good time to let him know what he’s missing out on.
“You’re at work while here I am at home, buying some new toys…”
Of course you’re being a bit naughty by teasing him like this. But that’s exactly what will turn him on.
On the flip side, you don’t want to text him when you know he’s busy. Not only will you fail to get his attention, you also might annoy him.
Send Him Sexy Compliments
All guys like compliments. But if you want to turn him on, you need to send him suggestive compliments.
For example, if he’s good at fixing things, you might text:
“I hear you’re good with your hands. I wouldn’t mind finding out …”
Or if he has nice hair:
“Your hair looked so good the other week. I wonder what it would look like if I made it a bit messy …”
And what about his fashion taste?
“You have such great clothes! That said, I think I prefer you naked …”
Just have a bit of fun with the way you compliment him and always think about how you can make it a bit raunchier.
Paint Pictures in His Head
Guys have a decent imagination – but you can fire his by painting pictures for him.
Let’s say he’s sitting at home and thinking about you. Maybe he’s picturing you naked.
… But what if you gave him a helping hand?
“Hey, literally just got out of the shower. I got totally carried away in there! It was so hot and steamy and soapy and my hands kinda wandered a little.”
Maybe you could involve him in your paintings, too?
“Gonna strip and have a shower. Wish you were joining me.”
What you want to do is draw his attention to you and put yourself into his mind so that he cannot stop thinking about you.
Here’s another idea
“It was so awkward today at the clothes store. I was in the dressing room for over 10 minutes because I looked so good in the mirror that I got carried away!”
Role Play
Following on from the above point, role play is your best friend when you want to master how to talk intimately with your boyfriend over text.
What is role play?
Role play via text is when you think of a scenario, send it to him and then exchange texts back and forth as you each push the story further.
For instance, let’s say you send this text:
“We’ve just broken down in a storm in the middle of nowhere. There’s no one around for miles! We see an abandoned barn. What happens next?”
Before you know it, you’re tearing each other’s clothes off and getting extremely racy via text!
Here are some more role play ideas:
“Our elevator has broken down and there’s only us two inside it. I start to kiss you passionately …”
“I’m your boss at work and I’ve just invited you into my office because you’ve been a bad boy. I’m ready to fire you. How are you going to get me to change my mind?”
Be Direct
Guys love to be teased.
They also love it when you’re bold and direct.
How bold and direct? A little something like this:
“Just got down to my panties and slipped into bed.”
If he’s the sort of guy who usually takes ages to reply, it’s almost certain that he’ll suddenly be available after this text!
Or how about this one:
“Just got out of the shower, currently dripping wet. What do you suggest I do next?”
You could even just tell me what you want him to do to you: “I’m so horny tonight, I wish you were here to do what you please with me!”
Talk About Fantasies
Guys have a few things they love to talk about: Football, beer and themselves.
The good thing for you is two out of three of those things are usually reserved for their buddies. When it comes to girls, they’d love to share their fantasies with you.
When you’re in the mood, use your phone to ask him about his fantasies:
“What’s your biggest turn on?”
“What do you like best about sex? Nothing is out of bounds. Tell me your most intimate desires.”
“If you could take me right now, what would you do to me?” Don’t be afraid to share your fantasies, too. In fact, you could initiate things:
“My biggest turn on is a man who takes charge. What’s yours?”
Send Him Pics
Should you send him the full show when it comes to pics or sexy teasers?
In other words, do you send him nudes that show everything or do you leave him wanting more by showing him glimpses of flesh?
It’s a good idea to start off with a revealing photo of yourself that hints at more. Maybe you should show a pic of your torso that clearly suggests you’re totally naked from the waist down.
Also, you don’t even have to send him nudes. Instead, you could send him a pic of you wearing raunchy underwear or a short skirt.
Or maybe you could send him a pic of what you’re wearing tonight before you head out. If you do this, make sure to ask him for his thoughts.
“Remember When …”
If the two of you have had sex before (and especially if you’re a couple!), another way to turn a guy on over text is to bring up a memory of a time when the two of you were intimate.
For example, you could say “remember that time when we were so noisy the neighbors banged on the wall? I was thinking about this today.”
Or:
“I can’t get you out of my head, I was thinking back to the last time we had sex and I’m dying to have you inside me again.”
How To Talk Intimately With Your Boyfriend Over Text: Final Thoughts
It shouldn’t be that hard to learn how to intimately talk with your boyfriend over text. As long as you follow the red hot tips above, you’ll have him rushing to his phone and impatient to see what else you have to say next.
On that note, you can tease him further by taking your time to reply. Don’t message him back straight away but also don’t take too long between responses. Just take the right amount of time so that you’re teasing him and making him want more.
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