The art of texting the woman you love is based on triggering certain feelings within her that make her feel closer and closer to you. In this article, we take a look at why you need to send certain types of texts to your special someone, as well as the 4 things that will strengthen your bond when you are apart.

Hey guys! We know you love your girl. But have you been sending enough love text messages for her? It may sound cheesy, but it is an important to make sure she knows that she is desired, treasured and loved.

“How about flowers?” you ask. Well, sometimes flowers are amazing. But another option that is just as powerful as a beautiful bouquet is writing the right words You know, a text that lets her know just how important she is to you!

In short, if you want to nourish your relationship, you need to send her things that matter to her.

How does this translate to your texting habits? For instance, less football updates – and more tokens of appreciation and love.

So, why send them? A relationship demands work and effort. As well as the things you do when you’re together, the things you do when you’re not with her also matter. From now on, use your phone to strengthen your bond and make her fall in love with you even harder. So the next time she sees you, she’s ready to give you the best hug EVER.

Here are some ideas to help get you started:

1. Get the Frequency Right

Firstly, it’s easy to overdo a good thing (think ice-cream or Pringles). The same is true with love text messages. Certainly, too many and they will lose their value. If you’re sending her over the top love text messages every day, the message will become diluted and lose its meaning.

To sum up, use common sense. Mix up this type of text with normal texts and don’t obsess and overdo it.

2. Be Creative With Your Love Text Messages For Her

“I love you” are 3 magic words that make us feel all warm and special. And of course you SHOULD be sending her a simple “I love you” text from time to time. The simplicity makes it powerful.

But don’t forget: You can also get creative with your love text messages for her.

For example, you could send her a cute picture quote that you found on Instagram.

Or perhaps you could record a video of yourself telling her that you love her, before sending it over.

Similarly you could even send a photo of you two together with a cute caption. The possibilities are endless.

3. Send Her A Love Poem Via Text

It doesn’t matter if you’re not a poet, and it doesn’t matter if you don’t know anything about poetry. All you need to know is that a short and sweet love poem can be an excellent addition to your texting repertoire.

For example, check out the tender love poems of poet Rupi Kaur. She’s able to express what love is in just a few sentences, and she always accompanies her poems with art.

Perhaps you could use her as inspiration for crafting your own short and sweet poem (accompanied by a cute doodle, of course!),

Not sure how to add doodles to text? Try a free tool like Canva or Design Wizard. All you need to do is add some text, add a pic, download the file to your phone and text it to your girl!

4. Make Her Feel Appreciated

Lastly, whenever you think of ideas for love text messages for her, think of ways you can make her understand just how much she means to you.

Tell her what you love about her. Remind her that you find her ridiculously attractive inside and out, and that you can’t wait to see her again.

All in all, love text messages for her will help to keep your relationship strong, even when you’re not together. Take these tips and start texting!

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Claudia Cox

Claudia Cox is a modern communication expert who gives singles and couples alike the tools they need to improve their relationships. She is the creator of The Text Weapon Texting Club, and the author of French Seduction Made Easy. She loves the outdoors, baking tasty treats for friends, and of course, texting.
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  1. Good morning.
    For some reason i must have done something wrong. I’m am receiving text messages for HER – and I need them to send to my boyfriend. How do we fix this please? Thank you for your help. I’d really like the correct ones to send to my man.

    1. Hi Nannette,
      I hope that everything is in order – I sent you an email yesterday. Please reach out if you have any issues. Have a wonderful weekend!
      Xo Claudia

  2. After 18 years of marriage, my excessive work travel has stressed our relationship to near the breaking point. I feel some creative texting would make a huge difference in our marriage!

    1. Hi there,
      I’m so sorry to hear that your marriage has hit a rough patch…
      Here are a few message ideas to make her feel appreciated and to rebuild your connection.
      If you need any help, please email me [email protected].
      1. Thinking of you – even if you are separated by distance, let her know that you are thinking of her by sharing something from your current location “Just saw the (al)most amazing sunset. It would have been perfect if you were here”
      2. Gratitude – show appreciation for the special things she does for you – such as helping you get ready for your trips, taking care of bills while you are away, etc. Be specific. “I know I probably didn’t say it enough, but I always really appreciated the way you took such good care of me *insert something specific here” or “what I’ve always loved about you…”
      3. Compliments – once again, be specific. Something about her personality or a physical trait you adore. “You’re the funniest person I know. When I’m forced to be away from you, I really miss your jokes”
      “You are such a hard worker, thanks for taking care of everything back home. I’m amazed at all you do”

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