Christmas is a time for giving, forgetting, forgiving, eating, drinking - and loving. It's a time for romance, seeing more couples getting engaged on Christmas Eve than any other day of the year. It's a time for friendship and family, too, with millions of people around the world making the effort to see their loved ones over the holidays. For many, it's one of the rare times we get to spend more time than usual in the arms of our partner, taking walks, smooching in bed and watching movies under the blankets together.

Don’t forget that flirty Christmas text messages also have a coveted place in your celebrations. It’s that time of year again when we overindulge, pray that Santa might actually exist – and experience all kinds of romantic feelings.

If you have a few special people in your life and want to wish them a merry Christmas via text, here are some flirty Christmas text messages for all occasions.

What to Text a Friend You Haven’t Seen for Too Long

The thing with some friendships is that we can sometimes go far too long without seeing them. Life just gets in the way. Before we know it, we haven’t see them all year – or longer.

If you’ve got a friend whom you haven’t see for too long, Christmas is the time to send them a heartfelt message that reminds them that you’re still thinking about them. Here are some examples:

˝It’s been far too long, but I hope you’ve had an amazing year! 2024 is the year we WILL arrange to do something.˝

˝I know we haven’t seen each other in forever, but I wanted to send lots of goodwill this Christmas! Let’s make it a New Year’s resolution to meet up this year.˝

˝I was just thinking about the fun we used to have at Christmas. Missing you SO much! Merry Christmas and let’s do something soon!˝

˝I hope you have a great Christmas! I’ve got a few days off work if you’d like to go for a walk, catch a movie – or help me win the local reindeer chariot championships?!˝

How To Text Your Crush Merry Christmas

Christmas is the time most people get engaged, right? I’m not saying you should propose this Christmas (though that would be awesome), but if there is a certain someone you’ve been crushing on for a while, there will never be a better time than this festive season to arrange to meet up and take this to the next level.

If that sounds like you, you might be wondering how to play things. Should I text my crush Merry Christmas? And if so, do you flirt? Do you be direct? … Do you mention Santa?!

Here is what to text your crush on Christmas:

Flirty Christmas Message Examples For Your Crush

If you’re think your crush is ready to reciprocate some red hot Christmas flirting, try these:

“If you let me see you over Christmas, I might let you unwrap me.”

“I might not be Santa but I reckon I could make all your wishes come true.”

“Honestly, some of the things I imagine when I think of you … I’m definitely on the naughty list this year!”

“Santa just told me my list is too X-rated for his elves. Wanna help me with some of these gift ideas?”

“Merry Christmas, ya filthy animal! (don’t worry – I’m filthy, too)”

Funny Christmas Message Examples For Your Crush

Naturally, you don’t want to be goofy with a crush. But a bit of humor does no harm. Try these:

“Merry Christmas! Hopefully yours is better than mine. I’ll be spending Christmas night roundly beating my grandparents at board games. I have no shame.”

˝Merry Christmas! If you’re free this holiday season, may I propose a coffee, an eggnog – or tequila shots?!˝

 “Hey, I hope you have a fantastic Christmas. Wish me luck cooking Christmas dinner. I’ve already given the turkey a pet name, which is a bad start. Can I actually eat Thomas the Turkey?”

“Merry Christmas, let’s hope we both survive our families and can grab a drink in the new year!”

“Just think Jesus was born 2,000 years ago and I still struggle to put up Christmas lights. You want someone practical? I’m typing this while my hands are entangled in lights. Merry Christmas!”

Romantic Christmas Message Examples For Your Crush

A crush isn’t someone you want to be too romantic with. But if you’ve got a tingly feeling whenever you think of them and you sense they’re ready to return your overtures, you could try these festive messages:

“Merry Christmas to you and your family! I genuinely like spending time with you and really wouldn’t mind seeing more of you next year.” 

“Christmas is that time of the year when people do things they might not ordinarily do. So I’m wishing you a happy Christmas and letting you know I think you’re super cool and hope we can get to know each other better soon.”

“Merry Christmas! Don’t wanna sound like a drunk uncle at a Christmas party but I’m glad we met this year and look forward to seeing you again.”

Flirty Christmas Text Messages to Send Your Partner

‘Tis the season to be… sexy?!

Absolutely! If we can’t get sexy with our partners at Christmas time, when can we get sexy?

There is no better way of getting yourselves in the mood this Christmas than with flirty, festive-themed texts. They’ll drive your partner wild!

Forget boiling the vegetables – this is all about ringing your own desires to boiling point. Here are some examples:

˝Merry Christmas! Is Santa going to deliver you to me this year?˝

˝Those stockings that were on my wall? I’m wearing them. Just them. Merry Christmas.˝

˝So, it turns out that I’m on Santa’s naughty list again. Your fault. Wanna come over and help me be the naughtiest person on it?˝

Non Flirty Festive Texts For Your Boss

I get it; you really should text your boss to wish them a Merry Christmas. It’s polite and might even put you on their good side.

Heck, it might even lead to a promotion next year!

But how do you wish them a Merry Christmas via text without it looking awkward, contrived, inappropriate, or massively obvious that you’re trying to get into their good graces!?

All you need to do is to keep it short and sweet.

Here are some examples:

˝Hey, just wanted to wish you and your family a Merry Christmas!˝

˝Thanks for all you’ve done for me this year, really enjoyed working with the team. I hope your Christmas is awesome!˝

˝Happy holidays! See you next year!˝

And know what? Your boss will appreciate it.

Flirty Christmas Text Messages to Send a Long-Distance Partner

Christmas is supposed to be the warmest, happiest time of the year. For some, however, it’s actually the loneliest.

The festive season can really bite when you can’t spend it with your partner. If you’re in a long-distance relationship and want your partner to feel the love this Christmas, here is what you could send them:

˝Although we may be far apart this Christmas, know that I’m going to work extra hard to make sure we get to spend it together next year. It will be the best Christmas ever. I love you so much!˝

There are some flirty Christmas text messages for all occasions. Got any you’d like to add? Leave us a comment below!

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It is packed with tips and examples to take you from mundane to flirty, sexy and confident in no time flat!

Merry Christmas xx Claudia

Claudia Cox

Claudia Cox is a modern communication expert who gives singles and couples alike the tools they need to improve their relationships. She is the creator of The Text Weapon Texting Club, and the author of French Seduction Made Easy. She loves the outdoors, baking tasty treats for friends, and of course, texting.
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