Is there someone for everyone? More than likely. But there’s a lot more to it than that. If you really want to find someone to spend your life with, don’t let the odds of finding THE one scare you. When it comes down to it, the clichéd idea that there is only one perfect person for everyone is sort of silly.
Everyone who wants to CAN find a partner that they COULD be truly compatible with. In fact, you could probably spend your life with a surprisingly large number of people you’ve never even met. Or, at least you could, but only if you meet them at the right time, build the right connection, and do what it takes to nurture a long-lasting relationship.
Finding The Right Person
So, where do you start? By putting yourself out there, and making the effort to find them. Potential soul mates don’t just fall from the sky. To meet people and to develop new relationships, you have to be as open as possible to establishing sincere connections with others. You may have to go on a few dates that don’t go well, and you may even face rejection a few times. That’s all part of the process.
The truth is, finding the right person is hard work, and, if you aren’t willing to do what it takes to get to know people, to show them who you are, and to “put yourself on the market,” you may never end up in a rewarding and intimate long-term relationship. The good news is, just about anyone has what it takes to find the right person as long as they are willing to try.
It’s All About Attitude
As you probably know, the more a person really wants to end up in a meaningful long-term relationship with someone, the better their chances are of finding them. If you are closed-off to people who don’t immediately strike you as compatible, or if you approach potential relationships with a negative and self-defeating outlook, then you are doing yourself a huge dis-service.
Of course, there is a certain element of luck that plays into this whole business of “finding your life partner” but it isn’t all up to chance. In the end, perseverance and genuine effort win out over luck any day. Next time you are interested in someone, let them know, and, if they reject you, move on without growing bitter or jaded.
Once you find yourself building a connection with someone you feel truly compatible with, do what it takes to keep a good thing going: compromise, admit your faults, understand that there will be bad days, and be as open and as honest as you can. Before you know it, you’ll be building your own happy relationship.
So, You’ve Found A “Someone” Now What?
Finding the right person to start a relationship with is hard enough, but figuring out what to say to them so that you can develop a genuine and mutual romantic connection is often just as difficult. Next time you are trying to attract the attention of someone who has “struck your fancy” try sending one of the following texts:
• “I love your spirit…I want to learn more”
• “What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received? I’m sure I could top it.”
• “Everything was fantastic, except saying goodbye.”
• “You’ve got me smiling in my sleep.”
• “Your eyes can make me shy :)”
Is There Someone for Everyone Or Several Potential Someones?
If you haven’t found the right person to spend your life with yet, don’t worry—it doesn’t mean that there isn’t anyone for you. The key is to be as open and as honest as possible, patient, able to compromise and ready to invest real effort.
Finding the right person, just like maintaining any relationship, takes many things — hard work and sincere communication. And when you find him or her, keep them engaged with enticing text messages.
